Bad Parenting

If there is one major cause for many of the ills in modern British society, it is lazy parenting and Tracey Holt is a perfect example of lazy parenting.

The mother who gets her 13-year-old to behave… by giving her cigarettes | Mail Online

Tracy Holt even rewards her daughter with cigarettes on the rare occasions when she does behave.

The woman is so stupid, she thinks that giving her child cigarettes is a reward. I was always led to believe that supplying under 16s with cigarettes was a crime? This stupid tart is bragging about it.

Drinking

Miss Holt, 43, knows Sam drinks but is just relieved that it’s not more than a couple of cans of lager a night.

Right, and of course when she starts coming home after drinking bottles of whiskey, then she is going to tell her that drinking is wrong? To a 12/13 year old girl a couple of cans is a lot, besides it doesn’t look like it takes a lot to pull the wool over her mothers eyes, so how does she even know what she is drinking?

It is this kind of lazy parenting that leads to the gangs of drunken, out of control louts on the streets. These same idle parents then seem surprised and upset when their precious angel is stabbed to death or raped. Sadly these same crack whore mothers are not so sympathetic when it is their little angel doing the raping and the killing.

Under-age sex

And she decided not to get angry about her daughter losing her virginity at 12, instead insisting that Sam uses contraception.

Unsurprising really as the 43 year old sour old trout has two other grown up children, presumably from when she was on her back around the same age. Twelve is no age to be having sex and any decent parent would protect her child from this abuse. She is too young to be giving consent to a no doubt much older boyfriend.

Providing contraception to a twelve year old is tantamount to pimping her out.

But Tracey Holt is not some new age mother, who refuses to shackle her daughters young free spirit, or a mother that doesn’t believe strict discipline is not good for a young child, she just can’t be arsed.

I don’t see the point in punishing her. If I ground her, I’m just punishing myself because I have to put up with her in the house. Instead, I reward her good behaviour by giving her cigarettes. If she’s bad, she goes without.

Of course, grounding her sexually active, hard drinking and smoking daughter would just be an awful chore. Better to use the carrot and narcotics method, if she’s good she  gets a reward, if she’s bad she gets access to an illegal substance.

Could care less

What is actually quite sad in this, is that her mother see’s protecting her daughter from the dangers of the world, from things that her daughter is too young to recognise or understand, as a hassle, rather than a mothers duty. This woman could not care less what her daughter gets up to, as long as it doesn’t interfere with her benefits or her work-shy life.

The chances of this young girl finishing school without getting pregnant are pretty slim, but with an otiose mother like this, she couldn’t have a worse role model. She has already been excluded from school 40 times and it is no surprise when the selfish bag of a mother explains her discipline technique.

Sam got suspended for the first time after she climbed on to the school roof, I shouted at her and then explained she shouldn’t climb on roofs because she could fall off. I didn’t know what else to do.

She could have perhaps explained that it was wrong? That she should do as she is told?

Parasites

These useless parents are all the same, jobless benefit sucking parasites who do nothing to help wider society instead only leeching off it and then teaching their progeny to do the same. The 13 year old slapper that is Sam Holt is never going to amount to anything, except a sour faced hard drinking fag toting whore, just like her mother. She will no doubt have a succession of kids, with different fathers and never work a day in her life.

The most laughable thing of all (at least it would be if I wasn’t paying for this scum), is that like all of the other useless parents, the vacuous tart actually thinks that the reason her daughter started sleeping around, smoking and drinking is all because of someone else!

Miss Holt blames teachers at Sam’s former school for being ‘too soft’. She said: ‘Now she is at a special school where there are fewer kids in each class. ‘Hopefully these teachers will be stricter and she will finally get the discipline that’s needed.’

These stupid parents think that their responsibility ends as soon as their children are born and that it is up to the school to bring up and discipline their children. Conveniently forgetting that schools lost any claim on discipline years ago. The special school is just more pampering, the last thing that this girl needs. 

The only way this poor girl is going to get the discipline she needs is if her mother gets hit by a bus.

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4 responses to “Bad Parenting

  1. Shelly Haggerty

    What’s everyone doing for safety precautions for Halloween? My husband came across an article (http://i-newswire.com/pr220892.html) with some info about background checking neighbors. I thought that may be a little overboard but it had some other good suggestions for some precautions I haven’t thought about. Last year my youngest son came down with a massive fever after Halloween. I almost thought about just taking the kids to our church’s fall festival this year instead of door-to-door to prevent that from happening again. I don’t know yet. What’s your advice? Am I over-reacted or just being a concerned mom?

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    Lesson learned. Always trust Askimet.

  3. I agree with most things you said, though, I’m on benefits…I dont smoke, drink maybe once a week, and that would be a couple of glasses of wine on a saturday night watching a dvd. Oh yes, I had sex when I was 17. So we are not all the same, I’m strict and dont feed my daughter quavers when she is bad to shut her up. Not all mothers on benefits are the same… 🙂

    • Thanks for commenting Debbie.

      I wasn’t implying that all mothers on benefits are bad mothers, more that all bad mothers appear to be on benefits. You sound like you take parenting seriously, and like a decent person, which means your daughter will most likely try to be like you. I wish every mother (and father) had the same attitude.

      Presumably your mother brought you up with a similar attitude to your own? It is far harder to break with tradition than to follow in your parents footsteps, I’d be amazed if Sam Holt has managed to get herself together and is studying hard for her GCSE’s, in all likelihood, 2+ years on she is either now pregnant/parent or has left school. All thanks to her mother, but at least her mother now has a new smoking/drinking/layabout partner.

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